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The Silent Struggle: A Personal Reflection on misdiagnosed/ misunderstood conditions

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I recently had to attend a doctor’s appointment with a doctor who had ordered a lung function test way back in the fall. At the end of August I got extremely sick with what she thought was pneumonia. After weeks of antibiotics, trips to the emergency room and the cough worsening over time, she decided to order further testing on my lungs.

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Fast forward to a few weeks ago…2025

My results were normal. The doctor was left puzzled to why I got a viral infection which worsened by the day for almost two months straight – instead of getting better over time. “The test results don’t make sense. They don’t match how sick you got and for the duration.” I knew it was lyme and bartonella complicating my health struggles – lyme is known for shutting down the immune system from functioning properly and bartonella co infection is known to affect one’s respiratory system. After ten months of not informing my doctor of the lyme diagnosis, I decided to “let it slip”. I decided to bring up lyme due to the fact that I do think it is impacting my lungs in some capacity. You may be wondering why I withheld such important information – most medical doctors do not believe in lyme.

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I had prepared myself for her reaction – which was exactly what I expected. I was told the lyme tests are unreliable and most likely I had a false positive. She is right, the two tier lyme tests are unreliable and often produce FALSE NEGATIVES even if one has lyme disease. It is very RARE to have a lyme test produce a false positive. However, the lyme test I had done is more in depth and is even recommended by Canlyme ( Canadian lyme disease foundation). We are also told over and over again that we do not have ticks here or have ticks that carry lyme disease – I totally disagree with this statement.

I also mentioned the SIBO gut issues I was being treated for -“SIBO is controversial, we don’t really know if it is a thing!” Say what? If you do a quick google search on SIBO, thousands of medical articles are found. In a matter of a minute, two of my biggest health struggles at the moment were dismissed just like that! I did get referred to a pulmonary specialist – maybe the specialist will be able to to run more in depth testing on my lungs.

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Over the last week, I have stepped back to reflect on this experience. How are we supposed to get proper treatment/help when so many medical providers do not think our health struggles/issues are valid and are labelled as controversial? Many medical providers world wide still believe fibromyalgia is not a legitimate condition and is often labeled as a mental illness. I wish I had some inspirational advice to give everyone, but I don’t. It is a frustration many of us face with invisible illnesses or misunderstood conditions.

I often thought my fibromyalgia was diagnosed too quickly. Even though my doctor at the time was thorough in running tests, there were symptoms that just did not match a fibromyalgia diagnosis. These symptoms were left without an explanation for years. I eventually just “accepted” the fibromyalgia diagnosis and tried to move on with life managing symptoms – with little success. Symptoms got worse as did the intensity of the pain. I saw no positive changes, because lyme was the underlying cause of my pain and symptoms – most doctors are not trained to diagnose lyme or simply do not believe lyme disease is an issue. I do have fibromyalgia, but the lyme diagnosis was the missing link.

According to one law firm lyme disease is one of the top misdiagnosed diseases.
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When medical professionals fail to understand a condition or simply do not believe a condition exists the following may take place:

  1. Being misdiagnosed with the wrong conditions.
  2. With the misdiagnosis – insufficient support and improper treatment .
  3. Health consequences. People continue to get sicker because because of delayed treatment.
  4. Psychological distress

It is hard for me not to think..

1 “If only the lyme had been caught sooner, I wouldn’t have become so sick!” The longer lyme is left untreated the more damage it can cause to one’s body head to toe. It can cause damage to vital organs if left untreated. This week I go for for an ultrasound on my heart to make sure the lyme bacteria has not entered into the layers of my heart muscles – it is known to cause an enlarged heart.

2. ” If only I had reached out to the naturopathic doctor (ND) sooner, instead of repeating the same lab tests over and over which all reflected normal. A friend of mine had given me the ND’s contact information two years prior to me actually reaching out to her. I wish I had done so way sooner.

3. The doubt from some medical providers ( not all) contributed to my anxiety disorder. If I had to see a doctor who was unfamiliar with my file, they would immediately blame the symptoms on anxiety. I’ve also been told by several health providers I was not trying to get better.

I am working on not focusing on the what ifs, as I can’t change what took place. All I can focus on is what is in front of me now – today. The what ifs were only contributing to my anxiety levels – increasing symptoms and making me sicker.

The Struggles of Maintaining Friendships Amidst Chronic Illness: A Personal Journey

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We often form friendships with people who have similar hobbies and interests as we do. However, what happens when chronic illness takes away our ability to take part in those activities? Those friendships often cease to exist because we no longer have ” things in common”. This does not happen just with having a chronic illness – but at times friendships just tend to grow apart. Our hobbies and interests may change over time as well as our life goals – it is just how life goes.

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How do we make new friends when we have a chronic illness? I often found it difficult to make new friends as an adult before chronic illness set in- it seems like unless one is into the bar scene it is near impossible. It is even harder when you factor in a chronic illness. I soon realized I was hearing from friends less and less even if I reached out first – messeges often showed read and I received no response. For myself, when I got diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2019, I started joining online support groups to be able to interact and chat to other people who understood the struggle with chronic pain and every other symptom fibromyalgia seems to throw at us. I found a few people on the group that lived locally and we started going out for lunch or coffee. There was never any hurt feelings if we had to cancel last minute due to not feeling well. I later started fibrofighters – there are quite a few followers who I speak to daily, eventually adding them to my personal Facebook account and consider them to be some of my closest friends. I can always count on them to be there to listen to my struggles even though they are half way around the world. They get it! Strange how people who you have never met can become your main support systems.

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In April 2024, when I received my lyme diagnosis I found myself facing another bout of lost friendships. When I expressed how disappointed I was in “friends” reactions to being diagnosed with lyme disease to the doctor treating me, she looked at me and asked me one simple question , ” Do you really want/need people like that in your life?” Of course my answer was no. Even though it still stung for several weeks, she was right – I don’t need people like that in my life. These “friends” decided to voice their opinions on my treatment routes – it is fine to have an opinion ( we all have opinions), but was it necessary to launch a personal attack and name call?! NO!! You would think my decisions were impacting their lives directly – when they were not. I know their responses were due to lack of knowledge on lyme – however this did not give them the right to treat me in this manner.

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We can’t control how people react and respond, but what we can control is how we react and respond to them. Over the last week I have been listening to Mel Robbins “The Let Them Theory” audiobook. It has been an eye opener for me. I won’t be going into detail about the book itself in my blog as there is just too much information to cover. ” The Let Them Theory” has gone viral and was only published December 24, 2024! I kept seeing her book in every store I went into the last several weeks, so I decided to listen to the audiobook version.

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“If they want to leave… let them.

If they choose someone else…let them.

If they don’t support you…let them.

If they don’t invite you…let them.

Stop wasting your energy trying to change or control other people.

Let them show who they really are.

And then you can choose what you do next!”

These seven sentences resonated with me. I felt a sense of peace take over. I realized “friends” opinions and actions reflect who they are, not who I am as a person. The way I respond reflects who I am. I wish I knew about this theory months ago when these situations took place. I would have responded way differently. I think I am going to put this theory to the test. It is going to take time and commitment – but I think it will also better my mental health and over all well being.

LET THEM!

SIBO – What is it? Is there a correlation between SIBO and Fibromyalgia?

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Have you ever heard of SIBO? Most people will say no to this question. I hadn’t heard of SIBO until I started seeing a naturopathic doctor. SIBO stands for small intestinal bacteria overgrowth – it is not the same as IBS or c diff.

I started seeing a naturopathic doctor (ND) in April of 2024 to treat chronic Lyme disease. Before we had even tested for Lyme, the ND was positive I was dealing with SIBO. She immediately put me on a herbal treatment for it and it was gone in three weeks. It is said that 70% of people who have lyme disease often get SIBO. This is my third time being treated for SIBO and it has been the worst case I have had thus far.

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What is SIBO?

SIBO is a condition where there is an abnormal increase of bacteria in the small intestine.

Symptoms of SIBO:

You can find more information about SIBO at the Mayo Clinic here.

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How is SIBO diagnosed?

  1. Symptoms. If medical providers know the warning signs of SIBO, a conversation with your provider may lead to a SIBO diagnosis. In my case the ND I see treats SIBO often and she knew what was wrong before we even sat down to discuss details.
  2. There is a breath test that can be done to determine how much hydrogen or methane one breathes out after drinking a mixture of glucose and water. I do not think this test can be ordered in a regular medical lab ( maybe in some areas of the world) . I do know many naturopathic doctors offer the testing, but it can be fairly pricey.
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SIBO and Fibromyalgia

Out of curiosity I began googling fibromyalgia and SIBO – and found many studies indicating there is a correlation between the two conditions. Over the years, I have read that gut health needs to be corrected if one has fibromyalgia, but never understood the connection. I continue to do reading on how the gut biome can affect many health conditions to try to understand. Experts state the gut is connected to many parts of the body – including the brain.

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In one study, 815 people were tested for SIBO using the breath test. 123 people in the study were known to have fibromyalgia. Out of the 123 people tested for SIBO, 96 tested positive. That is 78%. The study concluded that small intestinal bacteria over growth is associated with a fibromyalgia and when treated for SIBO intestinal symptoms improved. You can read about the study here.

Another study conducted in 2004, concluded that 100% of the participants with fibromyalgia had SIBO. This study can be found here

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Even though these are both older studies the findings/results were consistent. I found a few other studies regarding SIBO and fibromyalgia, but due to very little information on the studies themselves, I chose not to include the links in my blog. I think this is due to the fact that the studies are older so only giving you the quick run down of the studies. It would be interesting to see some current studies on the subject conducted to see if the findings are still similar.

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After beginning treatment for SIBO through herbal routes, I mentioned to a few medical doctors that I was being treated for SIBO. To my surprise, their response was, “What is that?” Medical doctors do not seem to even know what SIBO is – yet alone how to diagnose it or treat it. SIBO can be treated with antibiotics, but in my case heavy antibiotic use for seven months for lyme treatment was the culprit to why I developed SIBO in the first place. I was on several probiotics while on antibiotics to help counter act the gut biome from being destroyed – sadly in my case it didn’t seem to be enough and the SIBO bacteria got away on me.

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After 4 weeks on various herbal supplements provided by the naturopathic doctor, I began to see improvements. The stomach bloating began to settle down, along with severe cramping, loss of appetite and severe diarrhea. Week 6 – has been fairly up and down with SIBO symptoms yet again. I am attributing the increase of symptoms due to having to switch to another supplement that may not have been strong enough to keep eliminating the bacteria.

I often wonder how I would have gotten the proper medical treatment without the naturopathic doctor being able to recognize the warning signs of SIBO – being medical doctors don’t seem to know what it is. I know I have several months left of treatment, but at least it is slowly getting better.

Next time you may be having major gut issues, consider SIBO as a possibility. You may have to advocate for yourself as many health care providers may not know what SIBO is.

Here is a good ebook i found online about SIBO symptoms. I thought I would include it for those interested in reading more information.

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Beyond Fibromyalgia: Uncovering Lyme Disease and Its Impact on My Life

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Hey Fibrofighters…

It has been forever since I have written a blog – just shy of 7 months was my last post release. I have not forgotten about you all! For those of you who follow my Facebook page, you all know I continue to post there fairly consistently along with monitoring Fibrofighter’s private support group. I first set out to just take a few weeks break from writing and then life happened….

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In February of 2024 my fibromyalgia symptoms got severely worse. I assumed I was in a fibro flare up. The muscle pain turned into full body joint pain and the muscle pain seemed to be non existent. I rarely experienced joint pain since being diagnosed with fibromyalgia – it was usually always muscle pain. The sudden change, left me confused and scrambling to try to figure out what caused such a drastic change to take place. I knew I had confirmed osteoarthritis in my neck and lower back – I just assumed I had osteoarthritis in many other joints through out my body. The joint pain began to severely impact my ability to move. I tried every pain reliever, muscle relaxant, pain medication I was prescribed to help with my fibromyalgia pain over the years with absolutely no relief. I found myself laying in bed almost all day barely finding the motivation to even walk to the bathroom because my hips and knees were so sore. Even to weight bear made my knees want to buckle from the pain. I started having daily high fevers of 105 F , swollen lymph nodes and a sore throat as if I had strep throat. I felt like I had been run over by a bus. Although fibromyalgia can cause these symptoms it is usually not seen daily and at the severity I was experiencing. I had been on a wait list to see an infectious disease doctor to investigate more in depth.

Some fibromyalgia symptoms. There are many more symptoms to fibromyalgia.
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Fast forward to April 2024 – knowing I would be told by my doctor it was most likely fibromyalgia and it was just “part of the package”, I never really had an in depth conversation about the new symptoms or worsening symptoms. I did mention the joint pain in my shoulders and was recommended to attend physio. I declined this recommendation as I knew it was all my joints not just my shoulders. My blood work always comes back “pristine” as I am often told. Doctors always responded back stating it is “just fibromyalgia”. If you are reading this post and have fibromyalgia, you totally get the frustration that comes from this comment. The comment we all dread hearing because it makes us feel unvalidated, crazy and as if we are just exaggerating our symptoms. Doctors don’t refer to cancer as “just cancer”, why is fibromyalgia “just fibromyalgia”? Fibromyalgia in itself can be very debilitating and life changing just like cancer can be. I decided it was time to step out of my comfort zone. I reached out on Facebook- on a local group looking for a naturopathic doctor. I was at my wits end after a month and half of severe joint pain, fevers, swollen lymph nodes and a sore throat.

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The local licensed naturopathic doctor reached out to me personally on Facebook messenger and we set up a phone call. After a 45 minute phone consultation the naturopathic doctor took me as an urgent new patient. We went ahead with the 2 hour initial assessment and by the time we were done she was confident in stating she was 95% suspicious I had lyme disease ( from a tick bite) and most likely a co infection of lyme. We went ahead with the Germany lyme test – I got a call with the results stating I was positive for lyme and a co infection. The lyme test indicated an active infection which had turned chronic – this means I have had lyme disease for many years making it harder to treat and no cure. All the answers I had been searching for, for years had been answered. I had many symptoms that did not align with fibromyalgia alone. The swollen lymph nodes, sore throat and fever mystery had been solved. Lyme and bartonella are the culprits. Sadly routine blood work does not usually indicate any signs of lyme disease. This part still confuses me – lyme is a bacterial infection, but regular blood work did not indicate any bacterial infection in my body. This is because lyme is smart and can make itself undetectable and hide in tissues instead of the blood. It can even disable the immune system from producing antibodies against the bacteria in order to survive. Lyme disables the innate immune system – which is our body’s first defense against “intruders” ( bacteria or germs). Lyme also produces extremely high inflammation, but does not necessarily show on an inflammation blood test. My body inflammation was low, but lyme was causing inflammation to take place in all my joints. The way I see it ( this is just my personal opinion), lyme defies the scientific world and what doctors are taught in medical school. If lyme can outsmart even the scientific world, what is it really capable of doing to the human body? I try not to over think the possible answers to this question because it becomes overwhelming and my anxiety begins to rise.

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Lyme disease is often misdiagnosed for fibromyalgia because both conditions have many over lapping symptoms. I won’t be going into the over lap in this blog post, but I will be sure to write a blog with this information in the near future. Sooner rather than later!

I started treatment for lyme at the end of April 2024 and it has been a horrendous road thus far. It is definitely not as simple as taking antibiotics for say strep throat or a chest infection. I was not prepared for how sick I would become 2 hours after taking the first dose of antibiotics. I was bed ridden for the first two months of treatment. I thought my symptoms were bad in February and March, it got much worse. I had to learn how to manage a whole new diagnosis, how to treat, manage side effects from supplements and medications and mentally come to terms with the diagnosis in a hurry. I am coming to the end of month four of treatment and still feel lost in this new journey. Chronic lyme means the bacteria has made it into every part of my body – Every tissue, every joint, every organ and has even passed the blood brain barrier. I have many years ahead of the unknown. Our hope is to eliminate as much bacteria as we can and put the lyme into remission. The sad part is chronic lyme can never be fully eliminated. Even if I am lucky enough to get to remission, a stressor or catching even a bad flu could trigger dormant bacteria out of hiding and the infection becomes active again. I have a long road ahead, but when I got diagnosed with lyme I decided it was time to take my life back!

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My advice to you all:

  1. If you feel it is more than fibromyalgia never stop looking for answers. Never assume every symptom you experience is fibromyalgia related. Make sure to mention new or worsening symptoms to your doctor.
  2. Trust your gut instinct! I knew deep down that something was extremely wrong, but general doctors often miss the symptoms of lyme. The naturopathic doctor I reached out to is lyme literate and trained to treat lyme.

3. Advocate for yourself. If you don’t stand up for your medical needs, who will? You know your body the best. You know when something is not right.

Much love

Fibrofighter